Wednesday, April 4, 2012

The choices we make.....

It was like that yesterday, it was like that the day before and it was the same this morning. Yes, each day starts exactly the same.....with you having to make a choice.

We make choices everyday, some we are conscious of and others we are not. These choices they affect others, not just ourselves and not always in good ways. For these we sometimes are truly sorry and other times we are so caught up in our own ego and self rightiousness that we justify hurting others.

In the end we all will follow our own path no matter where it leads. One day you will look back and see your mistakes....we are not perfect. Yet these choices have consequences and some you can never put right again. Some caused you to lose things you can never get back again (friendship, marriage, business deal). Some leads to the end of a chapter so that you can start a new chapter in life (new job, new relationship, new life as a whole!).

All things, good and bad, starts with a choice. Do not make a choice if you are not certain.....while at the same time do not delay making an effort to ask questions to gain certainty. Avoiding to make a choice and taking constructive action simply leads to more pressure and tention.

These choices are there for you to make everyday. I can only hope that you try to make them with the same effort you wish to live by. The same effort that you wish for someone else to honor you with, even if it means to accept something you did not want right now.

I can only wish for you to learn from your mistakes and choices you made....and to share with others the good ones you made hoping it will benefit them one day. So become aware before you make a choice....for in every moment it is impossible for you to know all. Ask questions.....listen, really listen.....come clean with your intentions and be open to grow.

In the end, I guess all that matters is that you try to leave this place a little better than when you got here. To be part of something greater than just yourself.

The time is now.....it starts with your next choice.

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