Where does that leave you then? Are you happy or respectful enough to let it go? Respect becomes a big word here as this refers to respect not just of yourself, but also for the other party involved.
Making a mistake here has big consequences. You are not in control of these consequences and trying to control these, as we almost always attempt to, gets you into just greater consequences. The magnitude and impact of these consequences will not stop until you stop trying to get control.
It is a weird thing, to get 'control' you have to let go. And boy do we struggle with this.
Relationships is just that......giving all you have just might not be enough to get the other person or party to reciprocate the feeling or decision. The experience you get from your efforts not being enough will determine your next choice and the consequences to follow. The message you get in this moment will have a life changing impact.....so choose wisely with great courage!
Knowing that the one persons 'no' does not account for everybody out there's opinion. One person's opinion is not worth shaping your idea of who you are!
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