I for one have been there a few times. The ones that turned out good is easy to handle and we are greatful. Yet when things don't turn out that well, we are left with scars and questions. We are quick to look towards that person to blame them just to make us feel better. This however leaves us unchanged and no better off at all, just stuck where we have always been in that area of our life.
The scary reality is that in time you will find yourself there again as a result of YOU not having grown. Be it in your finances, relationships, love, work or hobbies. Every now and then someone will cross your path just to open your eyes, but if you are not willing to change.....you will just push that person away and keep on your path. And that path will just stay the same with the same outcomes untill you eventually choose to take another path.
Taking that other path is not easy because it will change your life. You will loose 'friends', and you will make new ones. You will have people reject you, tell you how stupid you are and what big mistake you are making. And going through that is tough cause it was your comfort zone for so long.
But your life and your future is in your hands. And if you truly want what is good then you are going to have to face these challenges. But I can guarantee you that there are people out there who want what is best for you and will support you through these times, cause they were there as well at some point.
Nothing will change without changes taking place!
The goodness and Godly truth in life will not change, no matter how you justify your actions just to avoid change. If you are honest with yourself, those people (friends) who you might loose, are their lives the one that you want? I bet you not. The one thing that I have learned is to not take advice from people regarding a given situation if their lives are not what you want in that situation. If someone is bad with finances....don't take their advice. If your friend has a relationship or marriage that you don't want, do not lend your ear to them. That is foolish and will keep you bound to that very place you are.
What does the Truth say on your sitaution? What does God say, how does He feel about your actions? That should be your measure, nothing else. Then my wish is that you have the courage and strength to act in line and hold on! Cause in the end, only you will know....you will gain.....or you will loose the very thing that you are after....that joy and happiness and love and peace.
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